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Tavi 05-02. seqsualoba.

 

Tavis sarCevi:

05-02-01) zogadi informacia. pirveli nabijebi seqsualobis ganviTarebisken.

05-02-02) orgazmi. gaCereba orgazmis zRvarze. ganaTebuli seqsualobis gaRviZeba.

 

 

05-02-01) radgan "seqsualoba" sityvaa, romelic specifiur, sxva arafrisken mimarTul aRqmas aRniSnavs, seqsualobasTan dakavSirebuli terminebis gansazRvrisas ar minda "ganvmarTo", ra aris "seqsualoba", minda mxolod sxvadasxva terminebis gamoyenebis sazRvrebi davxazo, radgan Cveulebriv am sferoSi uxeSi Sereva arsebobs. amitomac tavtologia gardauvalia.

aseve ar minda sityvebi "mamakaci" da "qali" gamoviyeno, radgan isini orpirobasTan, mkvdar an srulad meqanikur seqsualobasTan, seqsisadmi negatiur damokidebulebasTan (nd) asociirdeba. amitomac sityvebs "biWi", "gogona", "qaliSvili" viyeneb.

 

mamakacis sasqeso organos aRsaniSnad sityvas "aso" viyeneb, maSin rodesac drunCebs Soris urTierTobebSi gamoiyeneba sityva "yle" - Tu agresiasTan da ukmexobasTan asociacias movaSorebT, romelsac adamianebi Cveulebrivad am sityvis gamoyenebisas ganicdian, aRmoCndeba, rom wminda fonetikuri TvalsazrisiT is seqsualobasTan ufro rezonirebs, vidre "aso", "falosi", "sasqeso organo" da sxva. qalis sasqeso organos aRniSvnisTvis wignSi sityvas "fuCuli" viyeneb (rac Seesabameba sityvas, romelsac drunCebi maT Soris urTierTobisas iyeneben).

 

wignSi termins "seqsiT garToba" viyeneb, Tumca drunCebs Soris urTierTobebSi mas ar gamoiyeneben, gamoiyeneba sityva "TxleSa" - is TavisuflebasTan, gaxsnilobasTan, mxiarulebasTan ufro rezonirebs.

 

seqsualuri aRqmebi - SekrebiTi terminia, romelic im specifiuri SegrZnebebis mTel erTobliobas aRniSnavs, romlebic sxva aRqmebisken mimarTuli araa. seqsualuri aRqmebis damaxasiaTebeli Tvisebebia:

a) is, rasac sityvebiT "seqsualuri siamovneba", "seqsualuri gancxroma" aRniSnaven. seqsualobisa da ga-s ganviTarebis procesSi gancxroma netarebis seqtoris ga-stan mZlavrad rezonirebadi xdeba (ixile qvemoT) - gancxromis ga-Si gadadinebis specifiuri aRqmis gamovlenamde.

b) specifiuri xasiaTis qmedebebis arseboba, romlebic gancxromas iwvevs - asosTan, fuCulTan TamaSi da a.S.

g) sxeulis garkveuli nawilebis arseboba, sadac gancxroma Cndeba (Tavidan isini asos, fuCulis, trakis, sawovrebis areTi mkacradaa gansazRvruli)

d) ga-sTan rezonirebis Tviseba.

 

seqsualuri qmedebebi - qmedebebi, romlebic seqsualuri aRqmebis gancdis, gagrZelebis an gaZlierebis mizniT sruldeba.

 

seqsualuri agzneba (sa) - iseTi seqsualuri aRqmaa, romlis drosac^

a) aris seqsualuri gancxroma,

b) biWebs ereqcia ewyebaT (asos gadideba), gogonebs - fuCulis tuCebis gadideba. Zlieri seqsualuri agznevebis dros xSirad fuCulidan da asodan siTxis gamoyofa iwyeba.

g) seqsualuri agznebis epicentri TviT asoSi/fuCulSi imyofeba, asos/fuCulis Zirze cotaTi Rrma ares moicavs, sityvebTan "Zlieri", "vnebiani", "mkacri" rezonirebs.

d) Cndeba damatebiTi SegrZnebebis Zlieri survili, romelic krebiTi terminiT "seqsiT garToba" ganisazRvreba - asos an TiTis fuCulSi, takuCebsa an pirSi CaCra, TvalebSi Caxedva, seqsualur Temebze saubari, erTmaneTis sxeulebis Sexeba, lokva, kocna, wuwna, kbena da a.S., amasTan, rac ufro Zlieria seqsualuri agzneba, miT ufro Zlieria asos/fuCulis areSi Zlieri SegrZnebebis survili, orgazmis zRvarTan miaxlovebis da orgazmis gancdis survili. Tu seqsualuri agznebis dros aris ga, orgazmis survili sustdeba, xolo ufro xangrZlivi seqsisa da ufro mravalferovani seqsualuri da erotiuli (ixile SemdgomSi) SegrZnebebis survili izrdeba.

 

seqsualuri survili ("ss") - seqsualuri agznebis gancdis survili. ss-s realizebas seqsualuri qmedebebis Sesruleba Seadgens.

 

(fakultatiuri paragrafi: sainteresoa gemos SegrZnebasTan paralelis gavleba. rodesac yvelis Wama minda, yvelis xeds warmovidgen, magram ras niSnavs "yvelis gemos warmodgena?" es niSnavs, "ukve ganvicdi yvelis gemos", magram susti da aramdgradi saxiT. xolo ras niSnavs "yvelis xeds warmovidgen?" es niSnavs "amJamad ukve aris yvelis mxedvelobiTi saxe, vxedav yvels", magram sustad da aramdgradad. gemosa da saxis swored es sisuste da aramdgradoba, da agreTve Tanmxlebi aRqmebis ararseboba (rogoricaa, magaliTad gaZRomis SegrZneba) saSualebas gvaZlevs yvelis "warmodgenili" da "realuri" gemo mkveTrad ganvasxvavoT, magram amasTan ara gvaqvs safuZveli vivaraudod, rom am Tanmxlebi aRqmebis gaCena principulad SeuZlebelia. Cveulebrivad es fiqri Znelad iTviseba - Znelia gaacnobiero, rom "yvelis gemos warmodgenisas" ukve yvelis gemosac ganvicdi. magram ss-sTan paraleli gavavloT - rodesac aris ss, SemiZlia tanmoxdili gogona warmovidgino, da maSin Cndeba ss! am meqanizms adamianebi xSirad imisTvis iyeneben, rom ss ganicadon - warmoidgenen, fotosuraTebs, filmebs, multfilmebs uyureben. da aravis eWvi ar epareba imaSi, rom am dros gamoCenili ss - swored is ss-a).

 

erotiuli agzneba ("ea") - iseTi seqsualuri aRqmaa, romlis drosac:

a) ar aris ereqcia da fuCulis tuCebis gaberva, asodan/fuCulidan siTxe ar gamoiyofa (rasakvirvelia, ereqcia/gaberva erotiuli agznebis dros im SemTxvevaSia gamovlenili, Tu amave momentSi seqsualuri agznebac arsebobs)

b) ea-s epicentri asoSi/fuCulSi ar mdebareobs, isini, SeiZleba, ramdenime iyos - yvelaze xSirad menjis siRrmeSi, mkerdis centrSi, yelSi, gulSi, amasTan is ufro sityvebTan "rbili", "nazi", "gamosxivebiTi" rezonirebs.

g) damatebiTi SegrZnebebis survili imdenad Zlieri da daJinebuli araa, rogorc seqsualuri agznebis dros, amasTan asos/fuCulis areSi SegrZnebebi ea-s gaZlierebis survilisTvis upiratesi ar aris. srulad tipiuria situacia, rodesac "seqsiT garTobis survili" ufro Zlieria, vidre "seqsiT garToba", es asos/fuCulis areSi SegrZnebebs ufro exeba, da naklebad exeba msubuq Sexebebs (moferebas), Sexedvebs, saubrebs.

d) ea bevrad Zlieria, ufro aSkarad rezonirebs uamrav sxva ga-sTan, vidre sa.

 

erotiuli survili ("es") - ea-s gancdis survili.

 

meqanikuri seqsualuri survili (mss) - iseTia, romelsac Tan ar axlavs ga da ganpirobebulia dabnelebebiT:

a) koncefciebiT. magaliTad, Tu arsebobs koncefcia "meuRlis movaleobis Sesruleba", qmari colis mimarT spazmaturad ss-s gaCenas iwyebs, amisTvis ki cnobil xerxebs iyenebs - masturbacias, colis adgilze sxva gogonis warmodgenas, sxeulis gaSiSvlebul adgilebze avtomatur reaqcias da a.S. pirvel rigSi, qreba ea, xolo sabolood es imas iwvevs, rom mamakaci ereqcias ss-s arsebobis gareSe aRwevs, rasac katastrofuli siCqariT impotenciamde (rodesac adamians ss-sa da sa-s gancda surs, magram ereqcias ver aRwevs), SemdgomSi ki ss-sa da sa-s srul ararsebobamde mihyavs.

coli, ss-s miRwevisas an sa-s imitaciisas anda ubralod fexebis gaSliT, ama Tu im koncefciis midevnisas, igive Sedegamde modis.

anda Tu qals mamakaci unda, kacma SeiZleba ifiqros, rom es "mamakacuri ar aris" - qali rom ar surs, igi fiqrobs, rom "namdvili mamakaci" aucileblad moindomebs seqss.

b) partnioris mxridan nd-s SiSiT, am nd-s Sedegebis SiSiT

g) sxva ne-ebiT. magaliTad, seqsze uaris Tqmis gamo uxerxulobis grZnobis an braleulobis grZnobis gamo adamiani sakuTar Tavs pirdapir aiZulebs, seqsiT gaerTos.

d) sxva meqanikuri survilebiT. magaliTad, qals mamakacisgan raRac sargeblis miReba surs da sanacvlod mas sakuTari sxeulis gamoyenebis uflebas aZlevs, da amasTan ss-s ar ganicdis.

e) tipiur gamaRizianeblebze (fetiSi) avtomaturi reaqciiT, magaliTad ase xdeba, rom rogorc ki mamakaci grZelTmian qals dainaxavs, maSinve mas am qalis mimarT mss uCndeba, qalis sxva Tvisebebis miuxedavad.

v) hiperkompensaciiT. mTeli bavSvobis, ymawvilobis da a.S. ganmavlobaSi ss-ebs Zalian Zlierad axSobdi, ris Sedegadac gagiCnda Tviseba, rodesac mss TiTqmis yvela qalis mimarT giCndeba, momabezrebeli, damRleli xdeba, ne-sTvis Trigerad iqceva, TviT seqsi ki - orgazmis swrafi miRwevaa TiTqmis yvela eroTiuli Semadgenlis gareSe.

ms-ebis specifiuri Taviseburebebi Sesabamis nawilSi ixile.

mss-s, agreTve seqsualur qmedebebs, romlebic mss-Tia motivirebuli, SeiZleba, Tan axlavdes Zalian susti gancxroma, an SesaZloa, gancxroma saerTod ar arsebobdes! swored amitom uamravi adamiani cdilobs, rac SeiZleba swrafad ganicados orgazmi, "gadaRvaros". ers-s da sasixarulo ss-s yovelTvis Tan gancxroma axlavs.

 

sasixarulo seqsualuri survili (sss) - iseTia, romelic ar aris ganpirobebuli dabnelebebiT, da aris sasixarulo survili (ixile TavSi survilebis Sesaxeb), anu mas Tan axlavs siamovnebis winaTgrZnoba, enTuziazmi, sxva ga.

rodesac mss-s, sss-s da ers-s Sesaxeb cal-calke saubris aucilebloba ar aris, maSin ubralod "ss"-s davwer, da amaSi ama Tu im survilis arsebobas vigulisxmeb - amas konteqstidan gaigebT.

 

seqsualobis ganviTareba esaa:

*) seqsualuri da eroTuili gancxromis meti intensiobis miRweva,

*) seqsualuri da eroTiuli SegrZnebebis speqtris an "siRrmis" (elferTa ricxvis) gafarToeba.

 

Cveulebrivi adamianebi sxvadasxva seqsualur aRqmebs ver arCeven, yvelafers erT grovaSi yrian, romelsac "seqsualur agznebas" uwodeben. am argarCevis mizezi meqanikuri seqsualobis didi wilia. seqsTan dakavSirebuli uamravi dabnelebis gamo adamianebi praqtikulad sakuTari seqsualobis Sesaxeb araferi ician, maT umniSvnelod mcire seqsualuri aRqmebis mravalferovneba axasiaTebT, seqsualuri partniorebis didi raodenobis SemTxvevaSic ki, seqsSi mwiri gamocdileba aqvT, radgan maTi seqsualuri aRqmebis mravalferovneba "daSvebulis", "aucileblis" da "SedarebiT wesieris" gansakuTrebiT viwro speqtriTaa gansazRvruli. amis Sedegad ki - maTi seqsualoba moklulia, CaxSobilia, mss-ebsa da maT realizaciaze konceftualur akrZalvebs Soris mZlavri damangreveli dapirispirebebi uCndebaT, seqsualuri aRqmebis garCevis gamocdileba ar arsebobs, aqedan gamomdinare ki - sss-s gamovlenisa da realizebis SeuZleblobaa, radgan survilebi, SeiZleba, mxolod raRac konkretulis, sxvebisgan gamoyofilis mimarT Camoyalibdes, xolo rodesac garCeva ar arsebobs, arc garkveuli, Zlieri sasixarulo survilebi arsebobs, maSin ganviTarebac ar arsebobs.

 

imisTvis, rom seqsualuri ganviTareba daiwyos da aqtiurad gagrZeldes, sasurvelia (seqsiT garTobis procesSi) Semdegi aRqmebis garCevas miaRwio:

*) seqsualuri agzneba

*) eroTiuli agzneba

*) meqanikuri seqsualuri survili

*) seqsualuri survilis gaZlierebis meqanikuri survili

*) sasixarulo seqsualuri survili

*) sasixarulo seqsualuri survilis gaZlierebis meqanikuri survili

*) sasixarulo seqsualuri survilis gaZlierebis sasixarulo survili

*) meqanikuri seqsualuri survilis realizebis meqanikuri survili

*) sasixarulo seqsualuri survilis realizebis meqanikuri survili

*) sasixarulo seqsualuri survilis realizebis sasixarulo survili

*) meqanikuri seqsualuri survilis realizeba

*) sasixarulo seqsualuri survilis realizeba

*) eroTiuli agzneba

*) eroTiuli survili

*) eroTiuli survilis gaZlierebis meqanikuri survili

*) eroTiuli survilis gaZlierebis sasixarulo survili

*) eroTiuli agznebis gaZlierebisa da gaRrmavebis survili

es aRqmebi erTmaneTTan mWidrodaa Serwymuli, magram isini mainc sxvadasxva aRqmebia, romlebsac erTmaneTisgan izolirebulad gamovlineba SeuZliaT.

 

didi mniSvneloba Semdeg sxva faqtebs aqvs:

1) sa, era, sss da ess, maTi gaZlierebisa da realizebis sasixarulo survili da aseve maTi realizeba - yvelaferi es ga-sTan rezonirebs.

2) nebismieri seqsualuri aRqmis CaxSoba ga-s Sesustebasa da ne-s gaZlierebas iwvevs.

3) mss-s moSoreba rezonirebs ga-sTan

(moSorebasa da CaxSobas Soris arsebuli gansxvavebis Sesaxeb ixile nawilSi "emociebi". "moSorebasa" da "CaxSobas" Soris gansxvavebis argageba swori gzis praqtikis argagebas niSnavs).

 

es faqtebi gardauvalia, amas upirobod yvela drunCi adasturebs, vinc sakuTari seqsualobis Seswavlas Seudga, sastarto poziciis miuxedavad - drunCi seqsualurad Tavisufalia praqtikis dasawyisSi (saSualo donestan SedarebiT) Tu SiSebiT, koncefciebiT, seqsisadmi agresiuli damokidebulebiT gansakuTrebiT Zlieradaa moWerili. am faqtebis gadafaseba Znelia, radgan seqsisadmi nd-s gazviadebis gareSe adamianTa 100 procenti ganicdis - ubralod TiToeul maTganTan is seqsualobis sxvadasxva formebis mimarT da gansxvavebuli intensiobiTaa gamovlenili. "bunebrivis" da "arabunebrivis", "damaxinjebulis" da "normaluris", "wesieris" da "arawesieris" Sesaxeb yvelas sakuTari, meqanikurad gadaRebuli mcdari koncefciebi aqvs. seqsis garSemo koncefciebisa da ne-ebis usazRvrod didi raodenobaa Tavmoyrili. ar aqvs mniSvneloba, ratom moxda ase, mniSvneloba aqvs imas, ra unda gaakeTo amasTan: ganixilo da gafanto koncefciebi, romlebic seqsTanaa dakavSirebuli, moaSoro ne, gamoavlino ss da ganaxorcielo isini; seqsualuri aRqmebis garCeva iswavlo.

SemoviRoT "erogenuri zonis" cneba. es sxeulis iseTi adgilia, romelic gansakuTrebiT mgrZnobiarea im piris mxridan Sexebebis, moferebis mimarT, vinc masturbaciis drosac ki gaRelvebs. mcdaria azri, rom erogenuri zonebi "Tavdapirveladaa mocemuli" da ZiriTadad sasqeso organoebis areTi Semoifargleba. seqsualobis ganviTarebisas sxeuli gaRviZebas iwyebs, sul ufro da ufro axali misi nawilebi kaSkaSa erogenur zonebad iqceva, sanam mTeli sxeuli mTlianad ar iqneba moculi maT mier. es narkozidan sxeulis gamosvlas hgavs - mkvdari, ugrZnobi adgili uceb cocxldeba. Tavis mxriv, axali erogenuri zonis gaRviZeba seqsualobis da ga-sTan rezonirebis misi unaris Semdgomi ganviTarebisTvis impulss aZlevs.

radgan adamianebi konceftualuri akrZalvebiT usasrulodaa moWerili, seqsualobis ganviTarebisken gadadgmuli pirveli nabijic gardauvlad seqsualuri fantaziebis (sf), ss-s garCevis gareSe realizebaSi Sedgeba, da gamocdilebis miRebis TviT procesSi ukve mss-s sss-sgan garCevis dawyeba SegiZlia, da imis SerCeva, rac ufro sasiamovnoa.

 

ss-s realizeba "arabunebrivis", "arawesieris", "damaxinjebulis" Sesaxeb koncefciebis daZlevasTanaa dakavSirebuli - yvela es sityva arafers niSnavs, rac dasturdeba imiT, rom sxvadasxva kulturebSi seqsualobis sxvadasxva gamovlinebebis mimarT srulad gansxvavebuli damokidebulebaa. magaliTad, arabul samyaroSi qali "garyvnil bozadaa" miCneuli, Tu man quCaSi daufaravi mxribiT an muxlebiT gamovida. indoeTSi - Tu gogonam quCaSi SortebiT gamovida, mas mTeli quCa stveniT da zuzuniT gaacilebs. ukrainis plaJebze qals SeuZlia sacurao kostumiT iaros, magram rogorc ki plaJis warmosaxviT sazRvars gadakveTs da am saxiT soflis quCebze gamoCndeba, adgilobrivi moxuci qalebi mas, SeiZleba, qvebi da joxebi esrolon. ruseTSi analuri seqsi samarcxvino maxinjobad iTvleba, xolo homoseqsualistebs sqesis miuxedavad daufarav represiebSi agdeben. TiTqmis yvelgan dedamiwaze jgufuri seqsi maxinjobad iTvleba. msoflios TiTqmis arc erT qveyanaSi ar SegiZlia Sua quCaSi sakuTar gogonasTan Riad seqsiT gaerTo, an Tundac SiSveli iaro - xSirad es sisxlis samarTlebriv danaSaulad aRiqmeva.

bavSvebTan seqsis gamo axla yvela qveyanaSi idevnebian, xolo Tu mozardi garkveul asakze axalgazrdaa (14-16-18 weli), maSin misi mxridan ufrosTan nebayoflobiTi seqsic ki gaupatiurebad iTvleba. sabavSvo pornografiis Senaxvac danaSaulad iTvleba, romelsac, SeiZleba, Tan damrRvevis cxovrebis sruli dangreva axlavdes. amasTan, cdiloben, ar gaixsenon farTod cnobili faqtebi imis Sesaxeb, rom Zvel saberZneTSi da romSi bavSvebTan seqsi sruli norma iyo, da ar aris safuZveli vivaraudod, rom bavSvebi amis gamo itanjebodnen. aseve avtomaturad im faqtsac uaryofen, rom TiTqmis yvela seqsualurad ganviTarebuli adamiani seqsTan an bavSvebsa da mozardebis moferebasTan dakavSirebuli sf-ebisgan Zlier seqsualur an/da erotiul agznebas ganicdis, da saocaro amaSi araferia, radgan bavSvebi da mozardebi gacilebiT ufro mgrZnobiarni arian, vidre ufrosebi, seqsualurad da erotiulad ufro metan aqtiurni arian, damRupveli koncefciebisgan Tavisufalni arian.

meZaveoba axla TiTqmis yvelgan ukanonoa, maSin rodesac es sakuTari sxeuliT vaWrobis mxolod erT-erTi formaa, da nebismieri sxva samuSao aseve sakuTari sxeuliT, sakuTari inteleqtiT da sxva vaWrobis formaa.

advilia Sexvde adamians (mSoblebs, bebia-babuebs hkiTxe), romlebic maxinjobad bunebaze seqss, muxl-idayvis pozaSi an poza 69-Si seqss miiCneven, sxva pozebze, an dRis SuqSi, an loginis gareT an Ramis perangis gareSe seqsze rom araferi vTqvaT. da saerTod seqsis Tema, miuxedavad imisa, rom oficialurad akrZaluli ar aris, samarcxvinod iTvleba, maSinac ki, Tu imas hyvebi, Tu rogor erTobodi seqsiT sayvarel gogonasTan erTad. warmoidgine adamianTa reaqcia, Tu isini uceb Sua quCaSi balaxze wyvils dainaxaven, romelic seqsiTaa gatacebuli? siZulvili, agresia, zizRi, sircxvili - yvelaferia, oRond siamovneba, simpatia araa.

saubari am Temaze usasrulod SeiZleba, magram vfiqrob, rom Tanamedrove kulturebis zedapiruli gamokvlevac ki sakmarisia imisTvis, rom gaigo - is, rac erT qveyanaSi danaSaulad da maxinjobad iTvleba, meoreSi normadaa daSvebuli. amitomac gTavazob aseTi gamokvleva damoukideblad Caataro, raTa rkinabetonis koncefciebi daamsxvrio.

kidev erTi gavrcelebuli koncefcia Sedgeba imaSi, rom bavSvi, SegiZlia, "gaaupatiuro" - kidev erTi sityva-saSineleba, romelsac aranairi mniSvneloba ara aqvs. "naadrevi sasqeso ganviTarebis zianzec" saubroben. sainteresoa - vin da rogor wyvets - rogori ganviTareba naadrevia? mimaCnia, rom Tu bavSvs moswons da unda seqsiT romelime formiT garToba, es niSnavs, rom man am formis seqsisTvis ukve fiziologiurad momwifda. Tu bavSvs maTemaTikis wignis wakiTxva ainteresebs, e.i. man maTemaTikisTvis momwifda. Tu gsurs, mis ganviTarebas xeli Seuwyo - aswavle: miawode informacia sasqeso daavadebebis da maTi Tavidan acilebis Sesaxeb, orsulobisgan Tavis dacvis Sesaxeb (rac, sxvaTaSoris, 9-10 wlamde asakisTvis aqtualuri ar aris), mouyevi - rogori SesaZleblobebi aqvs seqss. bavSvebis seqsisgan dacviT ufrosebi sinamdvileSi bavSvebze ki ar zrunaven, aramed zrunvis saxiT seqsis mimarT sakuTar Seuwynarebel saerTo damokidebulebas amJRavneben, amis Sedegebi ki katastrofulia: CaxSobili seqsualoba, CaxSobili ga-ebi, uZlieresi mss-ebis formireba, romlebic gaziarebul koncefciebTan da seqsis mimarT nd-sTan dapirispirebaSi Sedis. surT ufrosebs Tu ara, faqti faqtad rCeba - bavSvebs umravlesobaSi ukve 3-5 wlis asakidan seqsis ama Tu im formiT garToba undaT, da ss-s CaxSobas 15 wlis ganmavlobaSi katastrofuli Sedegebi mohyveba.

ss-s realizebis dawyebisas, YTvalyuri adevne imas, rom a) es SesaZleblobisamebr sisxlis samarTlis kodeqss ar ewinaaRmdegebodes, b) gakeTdes SesaZleblobisamebr sazogadoebis Tvalyuris gareSe, radgan winaaRmdeg SemTxvevaSi arasasurveli Sedegebia mosalodneli, radgan seqsis legaluri formebic ki uzneobad iTvleba, romlis keTeba mxolod maluladaa miRebuli.

 

axla partnoirebis moZieba, romlebsac igive formis seqsiT garToba surT, romelic gainteresebs, rTuli araa - internet-forumebis umetesobaSi metnaklebad Sesaferis partniors advilad moZebni, miuxedavad imisa, rom Seni standartebi, SeiZleba, Zalian arastandartuli iyos.

 

ss-s realizebisas, SegiZlia, aRmoaCino, rom Seni sf-ebi Zalian mwiria, rom Sida cenzori seqsualobis Tavisufal gamovlinebis saSualebas ar iZleva. am amocanis gadawyvetis efeqturi xerxi masturbaciaa. masturbaciis dros miuaxlovdi orgazmis zRvars da sakuTar Tavs Tavisufali fantaziis neba darTe, yvelaze amagznevebeli saxeebi warmoidgine, Cawere isini detalebSi, da nabij-nabij mkvdar zonas dasZlev. sf-s ganviTarebisTvis porno-suraTebis, videofilmebis daTvalierebacaa efeqturi an moTxrobebis wakiTxva - internetSi aseTi masala uamravia (magaliTad ixile: http://al4a.com/links/ , www.xnxx.com/porn.php da sxva).

"samarcxvino" araferia, radgan "samarcxvino" isaa, risi keTebisas sircxvilis gancdas xar miCveuli, amasTan, sxvadasxva kulturebSi es Cvevebi gansxvavebulia Sesabamisad imisa, rogoraa Camoyalibebuli avtomatizmebi ama Tu im regionSi. sircxvilis ne moaSore da dainaxav, rom qmedebebi, SeiZleba, SenTvis sasiamovno an usiamovno iyos, socialurad dagmuli an miRebuli, magram sityvas "samarcxvino" sircxvilis gancdis meqanikuri Cvevis gareSe aranairi mniSvneloba ara aqvs, Cveva ki SeiZleba moaSoro da siamovneba ganicado. jgufuri seqsi, analuri, oraluri, sajaro, seqsi Zaladobisa an tkivilis elementebiT, homoseqsualuri, biseqsualuri, rolebis TamaSebiT, faloimitatorebisa an sxva "saTamaSoebis" gamoyenebiT, biWis gogoTi gadacmiT da piriqiT, seqsi mozardebTan (legaluri asakis) an pensionerebTan, SemTxveviT partniorebTan, uCveulo adgilebsa da situaciebSi, meZavesTan an meZavis rolSi... Tuki Sen Tavs da Sens partniors yvelaferi es aRelvebs, Tu oriveni siamovnebas imisgan iRebT, rasac akeTebT da SemdgomSi amis gagrZeleba gsurT - gaakeTeT es, da seqsualoba ganviTardeba, moaSored folkloruli saSinelebebi, rogoricaa "RvTaebrivi sasjeli", "cudi karma", "energetikuli Wia", "gafuWebuli energetika", "Tmebi xelisgulze" da sxva.

 

"keTilsindisierebad" mxolod erT partniorTan seqsi iTvleba, magram es mcdari koncefciaa. aravin Catvlis "bozobad" imas, rom Wadrakis TamaSi an asobiT partniorTan saubari mogwons, rom Wadrakis TamaSisTvis ufro da ufro meti partnioris moZebna gsurs, radgan yvela maTgani Taviseburad TamaSobs, bevrisgan SeiZleba raime iswavlo da bevrs rames aswavli kidec. maSin ratomaa gaugebari, rom seqsSic saqme swored asea? sakuTari Tavi seqsSi erTi partnioriT Semoifarglo - es igivea, rac mTeli cxovreba mxolod erT adamians elaparako, erTi wigni waikiTxo - es xom ar iqneba saintereso? nuTu ganviTardebi inteleqtualurad? erTmaneTTan yofna sainteresi iqneba? scade.

koncefciebi masturbaciis mavneblobis Sesaxeb Zalian gavrcelebulia. amaze saubaric zedmetia, gamocdileba gviCvenebs, rom xSirad masturbacia amagznevebelia, maT Soris seqsis dros.

vxdebiT uamrav gogonas, romlebsac jerjerobiT orgazmis gancda ar SeuZliaT - imdenad CaxSobilia maTi seqsualoba, imdenad usixaruloa maTi seqsi. nomer pirveli amocana maTTvis, rasakvirvelia, orgazmis gancdis dauflebaa, amisTvis ki saWiroa, sakuTari kompleqsebi, SiSebi dasZlion, seqsiT imden xans gaerTon, ramdensac isurveben, masTan, visTanac moundebaT, maSin, rodesac isurveben. unda Sewyvito, seqsSi zrdilobiani iyo, zrdilobianobis, sibralulis, uxerxulobis, megobrobis gulisTvis ramis keTeba Sewyvito. sakuTar survilebs bejitad Tvalyuri unda adevno, sakuTar Tavs mudmivad SekiTxvebi dausva "ra minda amJamad?", "imas vakeTeb, rac msurs?", erTi wamiTac ar gaakeTo is, risi gakeTebas ukve ar ginda.

 

uTxariT erTmaneTs - ra gsurT, sss-ebSi damTxvevebi moZebneT, nu iqnebiT aragulwrfelebi, da maSin Sedegi seqsualobis swrafi ganviTareba iqneba. magram sawyis etapze, SesaZloa, amas partniorTan Seni seqsis meqanikuri mimdinareobis Seferxeba mohyves, da Tu mas is ar moswons, da igi seqsSi Seni amgvari araprognozirebadi saqcieliT metnaklebad zrdilobian aRSfoTebas gamoxatavs, cdilobs - pirdapir Tu iribad - dagarwmunos, rom "erTmaneTisken unda iaroT", es niSnavs, rom: a) misTvis gacilebiT mosaxerxebelia, rodesac morCili manqaniviT mis survilebs emsaxurebi, b) igi TviTon seqsSi ugrZnoboa, winaaRmdeg SemTxvevaSi mas ecodineboda - ramdenad mkvdari xdeba seqsi, rodesac sss-s ki ar asruleb, aramed dabnelebuli ganzraxvebidan gamomdinare akeTeb raRacas, g) seqsualuri ganviTareba mas ar ainteresebs, d) ga mas ar ainteresebs, arc dabnelebebis moSorebis praqkika ainteresebs.

Cveulebrivi adamianebis seqsi ganuwyvetladaa dakavSirebuli SewuxebasTan imaze, ras fiqrobs da grZnobs partniori. miCneulia, rom partniorze zrunvis ararseboba - ugulobis niSania. magram zrunva misTvis da sakuTari TavisTvis siamovnebis mitaniT ki araa gamowveuli, aramed mas umaRlesi niSnis miRebis survili, partnioris mxridan ne-s SiSi, sakuTar TavSi daurwmunebloba, raRac arasasiamovnos gakeTebis SiSi, wyeninebis SiSi iwvevs. mogeCveneba - ra aris amaSi Sesawuxebeli? gaakeTe, rac gsurs, da miiRe siamovneba sakuTari SegrZnebebisgan da imisgan, rom Seni partnioric siamovnebas iRebs. Tu biWs raRaca moundeba - igi getyvis amis Sesaxeb, da Sen SeZleb Seasrulo an ar Seasrulo misi survili, Tu Tqveni survilebi erTmaneTs ar daemTxveva, Semdeg ki gaakeTo is, rac gsurs, an Sewyvito seqsi, Tu aRmoCndeba, rom Tqveni survilebis mimarTulebebi Zalian gansxvavebulia. "delikatoba" fasdeba, radgan adamianebs survilebis gamoxatva eSiniaT, isini TiTqmis yovelTvis imas ki ar akeTeben, rac undaT, xolo Tu ityvi "amJamad ase ar minda", ne-s afeTqebas amasTan Senc ganicdi (nd-s SiSs, braleulobis grZnobas, partniorisadmi sibraluls da sxva). da Seni biWisgan Semxvedri nd-ebis, wyenis, sTs-s grova gagordeba. amitom miCneulia, rom karg "Seyvarebuls" unda SeeZlos partnioris survilebis amocnoba, maTi gafrTxileba, xolo partnioris warmarTva, misTvis imis Tqma, rom "amJamad ase minda, ise ki ar minda" - es uxerxulia, araa miRebili.

am problemebis "gadasawyvetad" seqsis Cveuli formebis Seqmnas mimarTaven. pirovnebiTi Sejaxebebis procesSi, ne-ebsa da uamrav koncefciebs Soris gasxltomisas, adamianebi seqsis iseT scenariebs pouloben, romlebSic garkveuli siamovnebis miRebas axerxeben, da maSin es scenari samalavad iqceva - ukve saSiSea gverdze nabijis gadadgma, radgan yvela Sejaxeba Tavidan unda daiwyo, xolo TxleSva swored amJamad gsurs, da ara erTi kviris Semdeg, rodesac miniSnebebisa da naxevradminiSnebebis Sedegad mixvdebi - vis ra moswons. amitom umjobesia garantirebuli siamovneba swored amJamad... es imas gamoiwvevs, rom scenari sawyeni gaxdeba, da erTaderT gamosavlad swrafi orgazmi mogeCveneba.

partniorebi erTmaneTs valdebulad miiCneven aCvenon erTmaneTs - ra kargad grZnoben Tavs, radgan Tu ki knesas, Tvalebis daxuWvas, mis moferebas daiwyeb, Senma biWma, SeiZleba, ifiqros, rom ar mogwons da moewyineba ar imis gakeTebas Sewyvets, rac mogwons amJamad, rac mas moswons, da sibraluli gagiCndeba.

 

qmedebebi, romlebcas sss-s gaRviZeba mohyveba:

1) grZelvadiani seqsis stereotipi daangrie. miCneulia, rom Tuki seqsiT garToba daiwyeT, maSin rac ufro grZelia is, miT "ukeTesia". araviTar SemTxvevaSi. xSirad mokle, warmavali seqsi agznebs: miuaxlovdi, trusebi gauxade, fuCuls an fexebs tleke da gza gaagrZele. miuaxlovdi, asos Seexe, 10 wuTi moefere mas, sanam ar adga, da waxvedi. miuaxlovdi, trusebi gauxade, aso Setene, gamoiRe da wadi. es SeiZleba dReSi aTjer gaakeTo, da is ufro amaRelvebeli iqneba, vidre grZeli seqsis aucilebloba - radgan Setene, didxans unda TxleSo, orgazms miuaxlovde, partniorsac orhazmamde miiyvano. xom ar SeiZleba ase - Setene, gamoiRe da wadi, unda moefero, unda es, unda is...

2) sruli yuradRebis stereotipi daangrie. miCneulia, rom Tuki iTxleSebi, yuradReba mTlianad partniorze unda dapyrobiliyos. es arasworia. es stereotipi rom daangrio, seqsis iseTi formebi gasinje, rodesac erT-erTi partniori musikas ismens, wers, vaSls Wams, raRacas hyveba, meore ki am dros mas TxleSavs, am lokavs, wuwnis, kocnis.

3) uTxariT erTmaneTs, ra gsurT am momentSi. marTed erTmaneTi, rodesac partniori raRacas ise ar akeTebs, rogorc gsurs. daexmared erTmaneTis sxeulebis grZnobaSi.

4) rolebiani TamaSebi. variantebi uamravia, seqsualoba ki Zalian aqtiurad iRviZebs, radgan rodesac romelime rols TamaSob, maSinve im SezRudvebis tvirTi, romelic SenTvis Cveul rolSia damaxasiaTebeli, qreba, da winaswar amis Sesaxeb arasodes gecodineba, radgan am SezRudvebTan ukve sasikvdilod xar Serwymuli da arc amCnev maT. magaliTad, Tu patara gogonas TamaSob, romelsac didi biWi acdunebs, gamocdili gogos imijis dacva aRar dagWirdeba, "kanonierad" gamoucdeli xdebi, arafris mcodne da arafris unariani, da SenTvis moulodnelad gancxromis kaSkaSa afeTqebas aRwev. an Tuki meZavis rols TamaSob, saWiro ar aris SenTvis nazi, alersiani iyo - meZaves moeTxoveba biWis asos aTamaSeba, misi wuwna da fexebis gaSla, da meti araferi - Semdeg SegiZlia ikotrialo da Tundac televizors uyuro, da ramdenad saocari ar unda iyos, aseTi rolis TamaSs, SeiZleba, ss-sa da gancxromis mkveTri afeTqeba mohyves, radgan gexsneba yvela valdebuleba iyo yuradRebiani, gulisxmieri, alersiani. Tu gaupatiurebas TamaSobT, igive xdeba: rodesac biWi gogonas aupatiurebs, saqme siyvarulamde ar modis, mas Setenva da motyna unda, da socialuri stereotipebis dacva araa saWiro. rodesac ueWvelad moZaladis rols TamaSob, SegiZlia Zlieri siamovnebac igrZno, xolo rodesac Seni gogona realurad Zaladobis msxverpls TamaSobs, masac SeuZlia ss-sa da siamovnebis kaSkaSa afeTqeba ganicados imisgan, rom igi Tavisufalia - misgan aravin arafers elodeba, arafris warmodgena saWiro araa, aravin arafrisTvis mas ar dagmobs - mas xom "aupatiureben", ramis Secvla mas ar SeuZlia, anu seqsze pasuxismgebeli araa, xolo cenzori mis TavSi, romelic ambobs "es cudia", "ase wesierad araa", "jer es unda iyos, mere is", usaqmuri rCeba - mas aravin usmens, mis akrZalvebs ver asruleben, radgan arCevanis Tavisufleba ar arsebobs.

 

sainteresoa aseve sulelis roli - rodesac darwmunebulad sulel gogonas TamaSob, Sewuxebebis tvirTs "rogorme sulelad ar unda gamoviyurebode" ixsni. da amisganac ss-s mkveTr afeTqebas ganicdi.

seqsualuri (da ara marto seqsualuri) Tavisuflebis mdgomareoba, romelic rolebis TamaSis dros iCens Tavs, SegiZlia daimaxsovro da survilisamebr Caxte masSi.

 

sakuTari moZvelebuli SiSebisa da seqsisadmi nd-s moxsnis efeqturi xerxi - bavSvobaSi momxdari istoriebis Tavidan gadatana - isini umeteswilad swored bavSvobaSi yalibdeba.

 

mizanSewonilia Tanamoazreebis moZebna, romlebTan erTad sakuTar ss-ebs ganaxorcieleb, ganixilav, eqsperimentebs gaiazreb. Soridan zogjer ufro Cans sakuTar TavSi iseTi dabnelebebis gamovlineba, romlebTanac ukve Sexorcdi da maT raRac ganuwyvetel nawilad miiCnev. sakuTar TavTan pirispir yofnisas stereotipebze uaris Tqma urfo Znelia, xolo rodesac xedav, rogor amas sxvebi akeTeben, amas ufro advilad aRwev.

 

garkveuli mss-s realizebis procesSi SeiZleba aRmoCndes, rom "Caqrobis kudi" arasasurvelad did xans grZeldeba. anu seqsis garkveuli formisadmi midrekilebas ganicdi, rodesac fiqrob masze, xolo realizaciis dawyebisas interesi male qreba, aRelveba ki gulgrilobiT icvleba. erT-or dReSi igive fantaziebi gaRelvebs, da yvelaferi igive wriT viTardeba.

mizezi - am saxis seqsisadmi Zlieri meqanikuri Cvevaa, romelic maSin Camoyalibda, rodesac sakuTar Tavs yvelafers ukrZalavdi. amitomac minda, SemoviRo cveba "mss-s naxevraddaSla" - es mss-s realizebis iseTi stadiaa, rodesac am mss-s moSorebis sasixarulo survili ufro Zlieria, vidre misi realizebis survili. mss-s ise aSoreb, rogorc ne-s (ixile nawili ne-ebis Sesaxeb).

 

sf-s ganviTarebisa da ss-s realizaciisas mniSvnelovani cvlilebebi moxdeba:

a) Camoyalibdeba upiratesobebi. seqsis garkveuli formebi mxolod warmosaxvaSi iyo mimzidveli, realobaSi ki maT mimarT susti interesi Cndeba, da piriqiT - is, rac srulad aramimzidveli Canda, uceb gancxromis amouwuravi wyaro aRmoCnda. magaliTad, SegiZlia agzneba ganicado, rodesac warmoidgen, rom gogonas aupatiureb (sakmaod Cveuli sf-a rogorc biWebisTvis, ise gogonebisTvis, radgan gaupatiureba im "urTierTobebisgan" srul Tavisuflebas gulisxmobs, romlebic bnel sazogadoebas seqsis aucilebel pirobad miaCnia, da romelTa gardauvlobis gamo seqsis Sesrulebisas, yvela Zalian iRleba), magram gaupatiurebis realuri mcdeloba (am gaupatiurebis dokumentaluri videoCanaweris naxva) SeiZleba, gamoavlinos, rom Sens sf-Si im grandiozul ne-ebs gandevnidi, romlebsac gaupatiurebis dros gogona grZnobs, da rogorc aRmoCnda, misi tanjva sul ar gaRelvebs.

 

amasTan, rodesac gaupatiurebisadmi negatiuri nd gaqvs, SenTvis moulodnelad SegiZliaშეaRmoaCino, rom Seni gaupatiurebis TamaSi (maT Soris jgufuric) Zalian gaRelvebs.

b) ufro advilad gaarCev mss-sa da sss-s, amasTan mss-s Zala mcirdeba, Cndeba sasixarulo survili moaSoro mss, rodesac maTi meqanisturoba naTeli xdeba, da Cndeba dakvirvebebi, rom mss-s realizaciiT gancxromis sasurvel dones ver miaRwev.

g) seqsi "daCqarebuli" da @"Txeli" ukve aRaraa - mdidruli seqsualuri da erotiuli SegrZnebebis samyaro, maTTan rezonirebadi ga-ebi gexsneba, da Cndeba survili, rac SeiZleba didxans ar ganicado orgazmi, romelic adre seqsis mTavar miznad geCveneboda.

d) ss-ebis mravalferovneba Cndeba - ar aris avtomaturi survili seqsiT gaerTo da daasrulo. magaliTad, erT gogonas garkveul situaciaSi ginda ubralod Sexedo da ea ganicado, meores gsurs marto Seexo, mesames ubralod moefero, meoTxesTan titveli dawve, mexuTes TxleSo da a.S.

e) formebsa da gare niSnebze seqsualuri reagirebis avtomatizmi qreba - zogjer titveli modeli-gogonas xedi aranair survilebs ar gamoiwvevs, meore gogonas Sexedvisas uceb mZlavri ss da es gagiCndeba, Tundac igi srulad da aramodurad iqneba Cacmuli da misi garegnoba sulac ar iqneba modelis garegnoba - ar iqneba iseTi, romelic, Cemi koncefciebis mixedviT, unda hqondes mimzidvel gogonas. mkacri konceftualuri sqemebi qreba.

v) sxeuli iRviZebs - metia erogenuli zona, ufro fartoa speqtri da SegrZnebebis intensioba.

z) ss-s spazmaturoba mTavrdeba. Tu adre ss-s SeeZlo Cemi survilis sapirispirod yuradRebis sruli dapyroba (hiperkompensaciis movlenis gamo), amJamad es mxolod erTi sasixarulo survilia sxva ss-ebis rigSi.

 

05-02-02) ss-s realizebis mxolod sawyis etapze orgazmi umaRlesi faseulobaa. seqsualur ganviTarebasTan erTad sul ufro da ufro ginda orgazmi SemdgomisTvis gadavado, radgan misi Sedegebi umetesad arasasurvelia, xolo kaSkaSa agznevis mdgomareoba Zalian mimzidvelia. amitom iRviZebs sasixarulo survili, orgazmi rac SeiZleba didxans ar igrZno, orgazmis zRvarze gaCerde, Zlieri ss ganicado da ganaxorcielo, gancxroma miiRo. es survili orgazmis gancdis Zlier mss-sTan ("daasrulo") winaaRmdegobaSi modis.

rodesac orgazmis zRvarze SeCerebas cdilob, aRmoaCen, rom orgazmis narkomani xar, da dasrulebis spazmaturi survilis daZleva iseTive rTulia, rogorc sxva formis narkomaniis gadalaxva - rac ufro axlos xar orgazmTan, miT ufro Zlieria damTavrebis survili.

 

orgazmis arasasurveli Sedegebi:

*) ss-s mkveTri dacema, uaxloesi naxevari dRis - erTi-ori dRis ganmavlobaSi Zlieri ss-s gancda ukve ar SegiZlia.

*) ga-s mkveTri dacema, xSirad katastrofuli. pirveli erTi-ori dRe SeiZleba ga-s gamovlinebebis afeTqebebi moxdes (es maTTvisaa damaxasiaTebeli, vinc ga-s cota, Zalian iSviaTad ganicdis), magram Semdegi 2-3-4 kviris ganmavlobaSi sruli vardna iwyeba. sicocxlisadmi interesi nuls uaxlovdeba.

*) gansakuTrebiT katastrofuli vardna eqstatur ga-ebSi Cndeba (ega) - maTi gamovlinebebi, SeiZleba, mTeli 4-6 TviT Sewydes.

*) mkveTrad sustdeba nf-sa da ne-s moSorebis survili, rasac amZimes is, rom nf, ne da nem mkveTrad Zlierdeba.

*) uaresdeba guneba-ganwyobileba - mwvavdeba qronikuli daavadebebi, advilad Cndeba gacieba, daRliloba, travmebi.

 

dasrulebis mss-s daZlevis gawrTvnis meTodebi:

 

1) Zalian efeqturia varjiSi masturbaciis meSveobiT. amocana imaSia, rom gaaxangrZlivo is dro, romelic masturbaciis dasawyisidan im momentamde gadis, rodesac Tavis Sekaveba ukve ar SegiZlia da unda gaCerde. masturbacia imiTaa mosaxerxebeli, rom nebismier momentSi SegiZlia momentalurad, survilisamebr, Seasusto Seni zemoqmedeba an saerTod Sewyvito is, maSin rodesac realur seqsSi es Zalian garTulebulia.

2) "stop"-varjiSi. partniorTan SeTanxmebas qmni, rom rodesac ki ityvi "stop", man maSinve srulad da momentalurad unda gairindes da daelodos, sanam Sen gagrZelebas SeZleb. SegiZlia signalizaciis sxva tipi gamoiyeno, Tu ar ginda, yovelTvis "stop" uTxra an Seni piri asoTia dakavebuli - vTqvaT, sxeulze xeliT dartyma "stop", msubuqi Sexeba - "midi".

3) unda hqondes mtkice survili ar daasrulo manam, sanam damTavrebis gadawyvetilebas ar miiReb. araviTari teqnikuri xriki ar dagexmareba, Tu orgazmTan miaxloebis momentSi daaxloebiT ase fiqrs daiwyeb: "araferia, amjerad davamTavreb, Semdeg jerze ki aucileblad daviwyeb TavSekavebas".

 

radgan termins "orgazmi" sakmaod gafantuli mniSvneloba aqvs, da araerTxel Semxvedria am terminis sxvadasxva ganmartebebi, minda, ganvsazRvro is. biWisTvis orgazmis atributebia 1) TesldaRvra+2) siamovnebis mwvave Setevis SegrZneba - an cal-calke ar erTad. gogonasTvis ki es - siamovnebis mwvave Setevaa + (zogierTi gogonasTvis) fuCulidan siTxis gansakuTrebiT Zlieri gamoyofa.

 

orgazmis zRvarze SeCerebis (ozS) praqtikis dros adre Tu gvian orgazmis zRvarze mdgradobis diapazons miagneb. aRmoCndeba, rom Tuki dasrulebis meqanikur survils dasZleb, SegiZlia gaerTo seqsiT, ramdensac isurveb, miuaxlovde orgazms da ukan daixio. agreTve sakmaod swrafad SeniSnav, rom seqsualuri SegrZnebebi ufro kaSkaSa xdeba, maTSi uamravi elferi Cndeba, da am aRqmebis gancdis survili xels uwyobs survils, orgazmisgan Tavi Seikavo.

Tu daasrule, amis gamo ne-s gancda uaRresad arasasurvelia, radgan es mxolod gaaZlierebs vardnas, daaCqarebs nf-Si CaZirvas. miiRe ne-s moSorebasa da ga-s gaCenaze mimarTuli Zalisxmevis Sesrulebis gamocdileba rTul pirobebSi, rodesac aSkara Sedegebi TiTqmis ar aris - amiT sakuTari Seupovroba gaivarjiSe. isargeble imiT, rom orgazmis Semdeg maSinve SegiZlia ga-s mozRvaveba ganicado - rac SeiZleba didxans miepyari amas.

 

drunCebis mravalwliani gamocdileba gviCvenebs, rom ozS-s praqtika fiziologiur aSlilobebs, guneba-ganwyobilebis Tundav mcireoden gauaresebas ar iwvevs, Tuki ar amTavreb swored sasixarulo survilis gamo, damTavrebis meqanikuri survili rom dasZlio; Tuki yovel konkretul momentSi irCev ar daamTavro imis gamo, rom ufro intensiuri, Rrma da xangrZlivi seqsualuri da erotiuli gancxromis gancda gsurs. orgazmisgan Tavis Sekavebis dros arasasiamovno SegrZnebebi im SemTxvevaSia SesaZlebeli, Tuki Seni survili ar daamTavro konceftualurad ganpirobebulia, Tu ar amTavreb imitom, rom migaCnia, rom "ase damTavreba ar SeiZleba", Tu amasTan ara siamovnebis winaTgrZnobas da gancxromis gaZlierebas, aramed danaklisis sinanuls, danaRvlianebas, ukmayofilebas grZnob. am SemTxvevaSi fiziologiuri aSlilobebi sakmaod mosalodnelia.

 

ss-s, maT Soris mss-s da sss-s, realizebisas, iwyeba ea-s mimzidvelobis gaZliereba sa-aTan SedarebiT. iseT seqss, romelSic es da ea dominirebs, "erotiul seqss" vuwodeb. erotiuli seqsis specifikuri Tviseba isaa, rom orgazmis zRvarTan miaxloebis survili TandaTanobiT adgils uTmobs survils, jer kidev orgazmis zRvris dawyebamde agznebis intensiobis zrda gaaCero - es saSualebas gaZlevs, ufro mimzidveli, ufro Rrma erotiuli aRqmebi ganicado.

 

amasTan aRmoCndeba, rom ara marto dasrulebis survilSi, aramed orgazmis zRvarTan miaxloebis survilSic meqanisturobis, spazmaturobis mniSvnelovani wili arsebobs. narkodamokidebulebis am formis sasixarulo moSorebasac mniSvnelovani Zalisxmeva sWirdeba, magram rodesac Sedegi miRweulia, yvela mdgomareobaSi, orgazmis mwvave zRvaris CaTvliT, mogzaurobis srul Tavisuflebas iReb, da amasTan mxolod sasixarulo ss-Ti da es-Ti, da ara meqanikuri CvevebiT xelmZRvanelob.

 

erotiuli aRqmebis mimzidvelobis zrda ar niSnavs, rom Cveulebrivi seqsi wydeba. sulac ara - is Zalian mimzidveli, sasiamovno rCeba da rogorc erotiul aRqmebTan, ise ga-ebTan rezonirebs.

 

droTa ganmavlobaSi pratkikosi swavlobs garCevas: a) seqsiT garTobis survilis da b) survilis, rom seqsiT garToba unda (anu rodesac seqsi gsurs, magram garkveuli drois ganmavlobaSi am survils ar axorcieleb). aRmoCndeba, rom amisgan aranekleb intensiuri da Rrma (anu mravali elferis mqone) seqsualuri da erotiuli gancxromis gancda SegiZlia, vidre ss-s realizaciisgan.

 

sss-s realizaciis praqtikis daxvewasTan erTad Semdgomi saocari cvlilebebi Cndeba:

1) seqsi warmoudgenlad mravalferovani xdeba - Sexebebis msubuq variaciebsac ki Tan gancxromis sxvadasxva elferi axlavs, da aseTi elferi SeiZleba asobiT aTasi iyos.

2) erogenuli zonebi mTel sxeuls gamonaklisebis gareSe moicavs, amasTan seqsualuri SegrZnebebi zogierT maTganSi ufro gamsWvalavi, ufro kaSkaSac ki xdeba, vidre asoSi/fuCulSi.

3) warmoudgenlad icvleba sxeulis mdgomareobac. is ukve aRar iqneba daRlili (gamonaklisi - sasiamovno kunTuri daRlilobaa, kunTebis intensiuri muSaobis gamo), usicocxlo, srulad qreba iseTi movlena, rogoricaa "cudi guneba-ganwyobilebaa", da amas imdenad bunebrivad aRiqvam, rom mxolod erTi-ori wlis Semdeg SegiZlia moulodnelad aRmoaCino, rom am drois ganmavlobaSi "cudi guneba-ganwyobilebaa" erTxelac ar gqonia! nebismier momentSi - Tundac Sua Rames - mzad xar adge da tyeSi 10 kilometri irbino, da amisgan siamovneba miiRo. Tu aris sasixarulo survilebi, romlebic realizebisTvis fizikur aqtiobas moiTxovs, sxeuls nebismier dros SeuZlia moqmedebis dawyeba, da amasTan gansakuTrebul kunTur sixaruls, siqorfes grZnobs. SegiZlia dReRameSi 16 saaTic ki gaakeTo is, rac SenTvis sainteresoa, da sxeuli avadmyofuri daRlilobiT ar daiRleba, Zalian swrafad aRdgeba.

ufro metic, Cndeba sxeulis sul axali, saocari TviTSegrZneba - is gamacocxlebeli vibraciiT ivseba (es ara saxe, aramed SegrZnebaa), TiTqos maRali Zabvis sadenia, da es gavseba gansakuTrebiT sasiamovnoa.

 

4) sxeulis sxvadasxva adgilebSi Cndeba SegrZnebebi, romlebic Zalian hgavs orgazms! CemTan, magaliTad, es fexisgulebSi, marcxena xelis gulSi daiwyo, mere - mxrebSi, beWebSi (jer marjvena, mere marcxena), mucelSi, SublSi da a.S. es SegrZnebebi imdenad emsgavseba orgazms da amave dros Cveulebrivi orgazmisgan Tavisi TvisebebiT imdenad gansxvavdeba, rom amas "erotiuli orgazmi" davarqmev.

 

erotiuli orgazmebi kardinalurad gansxvavdeba orgazmebisgan sasqeso organebSi:

*) mcireoden negatiur Sedegebsac ki saerTod ar iwvevs

*) ufro gamsWvalavi da amave dros ufro rbilia, vidre orgazmebi sasqeso organoebSi - garkveulwilad es gacilebiT ufro sasiamovnoa, vidre orgazmi asoSi/fuCulSi

*) isini didxans SeiZleba gagrZeldes - naxevarsaaTs, erT saaTs yovelgvari Zalisxmevis gareSe, ramdenjerme dReSi

*) isini mZlavrad rezonirebs ga-sTan - imdenad Zlierad, rom zogjer erotiul gancxromasa da ga-s Soris zRvars ver gaarCev - isini TiTqos erTmaneTSi gadaisxmeva, rogorc talRebi - miawydeba, Seirwymeva, gaifanteba. srulad naTeli xdeba, ratom rezonirebs ga-sTan erotiuli da seqsualuri aRqmebi, isini xom erTi okeanes talRebia.

 

5) gaazrebuli sizmrebis (gs) da sxeulgareSe cdebis (sgc) - e.w. "sxeulidan gasasvlelebis" ufro mdgradi gamocdileba Cndeba. amasTan, es gamocdileba mniSvnelovnad gansxvavdeba imisgan, rac spontanurad Cndeboda adre:

*) gs-sa da sgc-Si ufro advilia ga-s gaCena

*) yvelaze xSirad ga, romelsac gs-sa da sgc-Si ganicdi, ufro kaSkaSaa, vidre fxizlobisa da sizmrebis Cveul mdgomareobaSi. isini eqstatur Tvisebas ufro advilad aRweven.

*) is, rom aseTi kaSkaSa ga-ebis, gs-sa da sgc-ebis gancda SegiZlia, unikalur saSualebas gaZlevs, Seno mogzaurobis axali rto daiwyo - aseT viTarebebSi SegiZlia Sexvde arsebebs, romlebic SenSi eqstatur erTgulebas, simpatias, gulaxdilobas iwveven, da maTTan kontaqtebis procesSi srulad axali ga-ebis gamocdilebis miReba SegiZlia, maTgan swavlob, aRqmebs iziareb, ga-s samyaros axal horizontebs xsni.

b) mipyroba ufro mdgradi da sasixarulo xdeba.